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Third culture kids (TCKs) are defined as a person "who has spent a significant part of his or her developmental years outside the parents' culture"
This is a top line summary/list of points about the topic discussed at our September 2007 network meeting ....
Definition of a TCK: a person "who has spent a significant part of his or her developmental years outside the parents' culture"

Characteristics of TCK's:

Expanded Worldview vs. Confused Loyalties

- exposed to people with different views early on

- TCK’s learn early how big and interesting the word is

- confusion about patriotism, conflicting values, politics

- more diverse and critical thinking results in difficulty re-integrating into a culture

Three-Dimensional View of the World vs. Painful View of Reality

- real experience of news stories

- emotional impact of real news stories

Cross-Cultural Enrichment vs. Ignorance of the Home (Parental) Culture

- deep understanding/approval of foreign culture/customs

- ignorance about national, local home history and culture (movies, public figures..)

Cultural chameleon: adaptability vs. lack of true cultural balance

- easy ability to blend in

- difficult to truly fit in and not stay an observer

Prejudice: less vs. more

- fewer prejudices in relation to race, skin colour, differences

- more social prejudices

Independence vs. Isolation

- because of frequent changes in geographic locations, a TCK tends to be a very

independent person, often a loner.

- self-reliance helps TCK’s to make decisions and exercise leadership.

- TCK’s can be isolated, not trust anyone and hence not function in society in a

healthy way.

Culture Bridge vs. not belonging anywhere

- TCK have characteristics of both/all cultures and become ideal cultural brokers

- Feeling of being different and awkward in one own culture

- Not having a sense of where home is

- It’s harder being ‘back home’ than it was living abroad

- Restlessness, rootlessness

Critical Foundation Blocks for raising TCK’s successfully:

  1. Parent-to-Parent Relationship (commitment to the partnership, nurturing)
  2. Parent-to-Child Relationship (be sensitive to thoughts/feelings, listen to feelings)
  3. Making all relationships a priority beyond location (staying in touch, visiting)
  4. Creating family traditions
  5. Choosing a country/culture to establish a closest bond with.

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